Showing posts with label encouragement. Show all posts
Showing posts with label encouragement. Show all posts

Sunday, March 27, 2022

My Misunderstood Monkey Mind #8Sunday #MFRWHooks #SnipSun #CharitySunday

 


My Charity Sunday post this month features a potential chapter from the autobiography/motivational book that I've intended to publish for years. Here are a few sentences to give you an idea of what you're getting into.

In my younger days, I enjoyed mind-altering drugs quite a lot. Anything that allowed me to forget my despised self and my shitty reality was a welcome companion. My party pals thought I was a bit nuts when I said that I'd rather sit in the corner drinking a six-pack by myself than hook up with a random dude for meaningless sex, but I didn't really give a rat's ass what they thought. I liked my substances, and it felt like my substances liked me. 

There are things that I'm starting to understand now that so many decades have passed between me and those days of smoke and drink and the occasional pill or hit of acid. I really hated myself and I was dying to escape the garbage reality that was my life. I wouldn't have minded if I'd literally died. 

I was self-harming, and I made a half-assed suicide attempt that landed me on the psych ward for a weekend. While on the psych ward, I received lots of compassionate help, learned that I was a wonderfully worthwhile young lady, and never touched alcohol or drugs again.

Psych! I'm just messing with you.

If you liked that crap, continue reading the rest of the post by following the link below. 


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Don't feel like you have to leave a comment on both this post and the Charity Sunday post. One or the other is fine.

~Ornery Owl Has Spoken~



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Ornery Owl's mind is filled with the seeds of ideas. 
Sometimes they all blossom at once.


Hop to It








Wednesday, March 23, 2022

Tackle It Tuesday: For Reasons They Don't Understand

 

Image by Fab Lentz on Unsplash

Dear Campers,
This post was inspired by the Tuesday Writing Prompt from Go Dog Go Cafe and the above image for Three Line Tales. The Three Line Tale is the Senryu at the end of the decidedly nonstandard Haibun. 

If any of the prompt hosts feel that the post totally flouts their rules, they are welcome to remove my link, no hard feelings. 

And now, today's Haibun of Encouragement.

Greetings Dear Fiends,

Welcome to my Haibun of Encouragement.

This is not the best Haibun I ever wrote.

It is not the best anything I ever wrote.

But unless you are far more self-assured than I am, it may be what you need to hear.

Perhaps you are surrounded by people who tell you that The Thing You Do is nothing more than self-indulgent vanity. These people are quick to point out that only a vanishingly small number of Very Special Anomalies ever make a living from the arts, let alone achieve any sort of renown. They will then list the many reasons why you are Not Very Special.

I can’t count the number of times that I’ve heard that I’m Not Pretty Enough or that I’m Too Fat.

Yes, for writing.

I can’t imagine why I’d need to be thin or pretty to write, but that’s what I’ve been told.

There are others who focus on the writing, telling me everything that’s wrong with it.

I have too many subplots.

My work is too dark.

It’s too depressing.

It’s too weird.

It addresses too many uncomfortable subjects.

It’s too raw.

It’s too me, and nobody wants me.

You may know where this is going next.

The naysayers tell you that you need to give up this Artsy-Fartsy Nonsense and focus on having a Real Career that will make you oodles of money.

Learning a trade is a good plan. But choose something that you’ll enjoy. Don’t select something that you think will make other people happy, because it will make you unhappy.

Then continue pursuing your artistic or literary dreams.

“But everything I write gets rejected,” you lament.

Back in January of this year, I submitted a selection of ten poems and a short story for consideration in an anthology. Eight of the poems were rejected in quick succession. Then just today, the short story and one of the poems was accepted! One poem is still under consideration.

I also had a poem that I submitted to another publication rejected today.

More of your work will be rejected than accepted. That’s just how it is.

Improving the quality of your writing, art, or whatever your chosen form of expression should be a lifelong goal. However, most of the time publishers are looking for pieces that check off certain boxes. They are looking for work that has a high probability of being commercially viable. I don’t like to check boxes, and I can’t write according to a formula.

My work will never be accepted by the mainstream. I’m hoping for a cult following.

My advice is to keep creating and keep looking for ways to gain exposure. Realize that you will never be able to explain your love of your craft to the Naysayers. You are called to do That Thing You Do for reasons they don’t understand.

You don’t need their approval.

Keep on doing That Thing You Do for you.

granted a reprieve

now, go up and never stop

strive no matter what

~Ornery Owl Has Spoken~


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Fat, Ornery, and Writing What The Hell I Want to Write--Always.

Prompted and Hoppin'

https://godoggocafe.com/2022/03/22/tuesday-writing-prompt-challenge-tuesday-march-22-2022/
Today’s prompt—use the words for reasons they don’t understand in a piece of poetry

The prompt is the image at the top of the post


The Icky, Sticky, Nit-Picky Legalese If You Please (Or Don't Please)



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Tuesday, March 5, 2019

Real Cie Reviews: The Wayne Dyer Material

Dr. Wayne Dyer
10 May 1940 - 29 August 2015

My dear writing sister Blooming Psycho was up early this morning, and she sent me links to videos of lectures by the late Dr. Wayne Dyer, a psychologist and motivational speaker. Dr. Dyer's works encouraged positive focus and meditation to clear the mind of negative fixations.
Although Dr. Dyer's work addresses Buddhist concepts, it is not necessary to be a Buddhist to benefit from his teachings. His later work had a more spiritual focus than his earlier books. Even if one rejects the spiritual aspects of his books, one can still benefit from the ideas of positive focus.
I'm glad that Bloomy reminded me of Dr. Dyer's work. I invite you to listen to the videos she shared with me and decide for yourself if his approach resonates with you.

Best Wishes,
Cie

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Thursday, March 23, 2017

What You Need To Know Before You Leave Design School


I ended up dropping out of graphic design school.
I tried to post this video directly from You Tube twice. I don't know where it ended up!

~Lady Eddie~