tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8427109816373145171.post6686078330597188699..comments2024-03-25T15:16:05.486-06:00Comments on Crazy Creatives Cheerleading Camp: No ForgivenessOrnery Owl of Naughty Netherworld Press and Readers Roost http://www.blogger.com/profile/07596105116325246476noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8427109816373145171.post-28109676240692154622020-10-10T18:12:21.403-06:002020-10-10T18:12:21.403-06:00For me, it's no longer allowing them to take u...For me, it's no longer allowing them to take up space in my head. It's not a "sweetness and light" happy crappy forgiveness where now all is healed and everything is wonderful. Hate takes a lot of energy, so it's more a matter of not hating than of forgiving. Also, saying that I understand how certain factors may have driven a person to becoming a certain way does not mean that I forgive their actions.<br />I don't think that anyone is beholden to forgive those who wronged them. I really can't abide that idea.Ornery Owl of Naughty Netherworld Press and Readers Roost https://www.blogger.com/profile/07596105116325246476noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8427109816373145171.post-13517752082846772102020-10-10T10:52:18.493-06:002020-10-10T10:52:18.493-06:00It is another of those universal 'truths' ...It is another of those universal 'truths' I wrestle with. IF I am able to forgive them, am I also supposed to forget? Not a happening thing here.Elephant's Childhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06650565833097914052noreply@blogger.com